An Unpopular Offer ....

Nothing is better than togetherness.

I guess their idea was good,Team Building, but its too bad was not applicable any longer. Togetherness twice a week at jogging track was fun in d beginning but weeks by weeks its was not become popular amongst them. I noticed and found its only could stand for a couple of months. No harmonize found while they were outside.

Most companies now are having TB (Team Building) as one of their solution in bringing back the “warmness” n the unity on d place of work and it is an ongoing process that helps a work group evolve into a cohesive unit. In return all members will have a broad mind and have a care for each other in many ways.

If this happen I do sure they will make n feel their office like a home sweet home. And it has to be synchronized very well n blended from top to bottom and vice versa.

How UNhealthy Management hurts us

The nice thing about teamwork is that you always have others on your side.

Weeks become months and still found unhealthy management upon us. Hostile, arrogant bosses, manipulative, deceitful leadership by members of management and some of ppl who think that they r managers. Those are leading to diminished productivity for d workplace then unfriendly languages, intimidation n threats are visible.

An unhealty management culture describes downward thro attitudes n behaviour of management Soon, unehalthy management represents full of emotional conflicts among employees.

Typical consequences for me as an individual include depression, rage, severe stress or anxiety even withdrawal. These are as the price of trying hard to cope with an unhealty workplace !!!!!!!!!!!

Who is more Islamic ?

People has to work it has been stated definitely decades back. It is also because that working has huge purposes and big barokah (blessing) to every layers of community.

Islam teaches us that relationship between a worker and a company is mutual relationship - no exploitation. Each part has own right to be respected by other party. The company has to act nicely and talk civilized to their staff or their partners.

My best friend told me months back that her boss let his managers or staff to take a break for a couple of minutes to perform they believing (praying) while they were in d middle of meeting. Group who admit that they r Moslem should be ashamed at the company’s culture of others which was really implemented a good teaching of Islam. Even though my friend’s company culture was not keeping Islamic ID card but they really applied beautiful value in many ways which consist on islam.

If in one company that working as ibadah and the relationship of their leader and their staff based on fairness and humanity, then the company will grow faster and will reach their goal economically and competently insya allah.

Hope this writing can give awareness to everyone and can give more admiration on d description on value of islam in daily lives.

KEEP MOVING

Every human being will get happy only after facing d difficulties in their life path.
So dont b afraid to face ur difficulties. They will push u forward

I considered again my last talking with my inspiring man. I drowned the other day with distress, miserable and confusing times. Life is hard and it’s not easy for any of us. He kept saying “ pls work smart not hard” ….. well, sadly I still don’t know which side am positioning myself now. However, ur suggestion was wonderful.

What I heard that work hard is d only substitute to a hard life. And looking back to my times it was so tough - I had ever been in a very zero condition – destruction, things were not on track. And I am pleased that I am still alive now. Allah helped me giving a strong path and some big willingness toward that time, hey … life is not easy as it is …..

I must find a way to be thankful for my matters as I have always thought it would be a blessing because I was given a harsh time, which d gloominess would make me appreciate the life itself.

As time flies I should consider too that always stick to supportive ppl. With them we still be strong and think well. So, am suggesting that we obviously should have bunch of great friends as they are really inspiring n always make us keep moving in our lives. Thank u to all of you ….and am grateful.

LIFE is just like that ...

I love my past. I love my present. I'm not ashamed of what I've had, and I'm not sad because I have it no longer

She never thought her life always changes all d time.
She sat down quietly waiting for her name was called to get her monthly allowance. It was d last day of August, she and her friends were waiting nervously as d time was getting late – what time she would be home then while they haven’t got their cash yet..

Then, time for them has arrived. One by one their names were called – d response could be seen directly from their faces – and it was easy to predict. I moved a little bit toward her and greeted her - she smiled seemingly. And without knowing my question she responded what I had in my mind “ what a day !!!!!”, she was groaning with her pain – "see I still couldn’t fulfill my “dream’ to bring my own cash for family to continue their lives and for myself". She said that she has devoted her times to work and almost don’t have time for herself – d only thing in her mind was to support her family and many list which had to be fulfilled.

Well, life in a big city is very hard n rough and tough. Only d best one who can “swim” well thro d forest of big city, can reach his/her star. “My friend, I calmed her once, don’t be regret with what you have””. U are still a lucky person in d world. U are still be blessed with a good health and u have varies skills besides your 5 senses are still capable to be used. No worries now, as u r still have those things that u can consider. Then she closed her eyes for a while and looked at me back miserably.

Years later I met her again.
She was with her friends but at that time she wasn’t waiting for her payment. They r in d crowd of orphanage children kilometers away from their city to share their knowledge and channeled their cash to many needy people .. masya allah. She smiled widely to me and shook my hands firmly but warmly. She ushered me to a shadow tree and we talked a couple of minutes while having a very nice hospitality held from the orphanage.

She is “somebody” now. Her friends n my friend are somebody now. And I am proud of them. They are still friendly although they have many things now. They said that they should be thankful to their gloom times they had been thro, otherwise they will not value what life is. She showed me some list which next month her group had to visit another places to do something good for their neighbor.